attitude is one of the most important aspect of your life. because it determines how you look at yourself and towards your life. attitude determines your whole prospective towards situations. e.g. there are many ways you can look at a situation. you can take the same situation positively or negatively or choose to ignore it. it all depends upon your attitude towards the situation.
so the situation is not so important. what is important is how you look at the situation. your attitude plays far bigger role in determining how a particular situation will affect you than the situation itself. so when you are cursing your luck for landing up in a bad situation then change the focus of your vision. change your attitude to positive and immediately the situation will change for you.
remember, it is the attitude which matters the most in any situation and not the situation itself.
one thing which makes a big difference between a loser and a winner is their attitude.
one thing which can make you peaceful even in a very bad situation is your attitude.
one thing which can make you miserable even in a good situation is your attitude.
you cannot be at the top of situations all the time. but you can always choose to be positive. you can always choose to learn from your mistakes. you can always choose to accept things as they are. you can always choose to laugh over trivial matters and forgive the other person.
choice to respond to situations is always in your hand. so use this choice to respond to situations wisely for living a happy life. remember, how your life will treat you is not in your hand. but how you will respond to life is always decided by your attitude. so choose the positive attitude, if you want to live a happy life. because no one gains from negativity.