we all desire to live happy and go lucky life
and we wish the same for our loved ones too
no one desire to have pain or suffering in life
but life has many more experiences than happiness and pleasure
pain, trauma, suffering, bitterness are also part of it
and fortunately we can not just choose better facets of life
and ignore the experiences which we don’t like
no matter who you are and where you are
everyone has to go through these bitter emotions
like pain, suffering, trauma, betrayal, injustice, sadness and so on
and there is a purpose why everyone has to experience pain and suffering in life.
purpose of pain and suffering in life:
experiences of pain, suffering or betrayal are also part of life
and during one’s life time everyone has to pass through it
trust me, they have a very meaningful rule to play in our life
e.g. it is pain which gives depth to our life
if we don’t suffer then we cannot understand the suffering of others
and will remain insensitive to other peoples’ pain
people who have not experienced pain are usually shallow and insensitive
fortunate are one whose life has enough experiences of pain and suffering
a person who has experienced pain usually becomes wise and sensitive
and there is a certain depth, grace and wisdom in him
personally, i won’t like to go through painful, sad and bitter experiences
but one famous saying of enlightened master osho is that “existence cares”
existence cares thats why we all have to go through
painful and bitter experiences in life so that we learn from them and grow
those who accept the bad time and learn from it
become wise
and those who resent it and crib
remains shallow and stupid
no matter how bad our situation is
there is always a purpose behind it and a lesson to be learned
many times our soul has to pass through painful situations,
so that it learns its lesson and grow
and many times, we have to go through these painful situations
because we have given pain to somebody else in the past
and now repaying that karma. law of karma is applicable to all of us.
there is always a hidden message to be learn during bad time
and everyone has to find out what existence wants them to learn
personally most of my learning has happened during difficult and painful time
and i am thankful to those situation and people who made me suffer
its our good fortune that we sometimes have difficult moments
otherwise we will never grow
frankly speaking no one wants to grow
but existence care
and it will make us suffer
until we learn and grow
so better to learn and grow
instead of wasting time in complaining about suffering