why love is missing from our life
this is one question which everyone thinks
but most of us are never able to find the solution
and end the pain of living a loveless life
two factors which makes life loveless:
1. as a child we get unconditional love from mother
which is not possible now as a grown up man or woman
but unconsciously we still desire that unconditional love and acceptance
from our partner, friends, family and so on
but the sad part is that
they are also expecting the same unconditional love and acceptance from us
so we end up with a group of people
where everyone is expecting unconditional love from other.
but there is no one among us
who is full of love and is ready to shower it on others
a buddha is one who is full of love and compassion
thats why when someone reaches to its buddhahood
thousands of seekers and lovers join the buddha
if you can find a buddha or mystic in your life
then that love is possible
but not everyone can recognize a buddha
and there are many frauds who are pretending to be buddha or a mystic.
2. second important reason for missing love is wrong choices made in life
i have observed people choosing wrong career
because it gives them better salary and position
always choose a career which you love,
do things out of love and not out of compulsion for making money
whatever you do, enjoy it… make it creative, enjoy it
i have also seen people getting married not out of love
but because their partner is more beautiful, rich or influential
love should be the criteria in your major decisions of life
provided if you are looking for love in life
but if you want to live a materially rich life and are not bothered about love
then pay attention to higher salary, position and career
choice is yours
once you choose money over love or love over money
then be total about your decision
don’t regret that you have missed something in life
no one can have everything in life
so choose the one which is most essential and satisfying to your soul
i will share one criteria for deciding what is important for you
suppose this is the last moment of your life
and now you are reflecting back at your life
then what you will choose
love or money ???
please decide fast…. don’t waste time in reading further
as this is your last moment !!!
but remember, today is also the first day of rest of your life
so start transforming your life.
bonus tip: don’t look for love from others. instead find love in your acts. i mean, do things lovingly. look lovingly, talk lovingly. have genuine love in your heart. don’t be fake but be yourself. last but not the least, love yourself.