how to develop inner beauty and grace
you must have come across people who look very graceful and elegant. there actions and gestures are also very graceful and pleasing to the eyes. ever wonder, how to be graceful and develop inner beauty?
well, this post is to discuss some points which makes people graceful:
1. contentment – satisfaction is one of the greatest virtue in life and discontentment is one of the greatest curse of life. a person can be content no matter how poor he is and similarly a person can stay disconnected no matter how much money he makes. so contentment has no relation to money or position. it is a inner quality which one must develop.
2. jealousy and comparison – every body is unique and special and one should not compare oneself with others. by comparing you are just bringing yourself down. instead, find our your inner talents and nurture them and in long term they will give you your greatest moments of joy in life.
3. cribbing and criticism – constructive criticism is positive and should be welcomed. but some people have the habit of finding wrong in everything and that is bad and destroys the inner beauty and slowly this takes a toll on the outer beauty of the person too. always have a balance in life. some times criticism is good and on some occasion we should just accept the person or situation as it is.
4. creativity – live a creative life. choose the profession or work which you love to do. always give importance to the job which gives your more satisfaction and scope of being creative. but most of the time, we end up choosing job which pay us more money.
5. meditation – learn some meditation or at least a relaxing technique. so that you can unburden your heart or mind and come out of stress.
6. love yourself – whosoever you are, wheresoever you are… you are beautiful because you are creation of god. instead of looking for appreciation or love from others… go within and find out your inner talents and follow your creativity. never underestimate or do self-pity talks. accept yourself totally.
7. sharing – whatsoever extra you have… share it with others. it could be money, laughter, positivity or any thing. keep your heart open and big.